TY - BOOK AU - Steines,Margo TI - Brutalities: a love story SN - 9781324050872 AV - HQ759 .S74 2023 U1 - 306.8743092 23 PY - 2023///] CY - New York PB - W.W. Norton and Company KW - Steines, Margo. KW - Pregnant women KW - United States KW - Biography KW - Violence KW - Social aspects KW - COVID-19 Pandemic, 2020- KW - Women authors, American KW - Authors KW - Femmes enceintes KW - États-Unis KW - Biographies KW - Aspect social KW - Pandémie de COVID-19, 2020- KW - Écrivaines américaines KW - Écrivains KW - fast KW - autobiographies (literary works) KW - aat KW - Autobiographies KW - Creative nonfiction KW - lcgft KW - rvmgf KW - Essais fictionnels N1 - Everything is contagious -- Brutalities (I) -- What to expect when you're expecting to possibly die -- Sick gainz (I) -- Your body is a bull's eye -- A very brutal game -- The fast slowdown -- Working -- Deprecations -- Scales of hardness -- Waddle like a cage fighter -- In the clinch (I) -- Skin hunger -- Brutalities (II) -- Can I shelter you? -- In the clinch (II) -- A clean, well-lighted place -- Sick gainz (II) -- A body that's been troubled -- Epilogue N2 - "A searing, vivid memoir that investigates the dynamics of violence, power, desire, and a body pushed to the brink. Quarantined in a southwestern desert city in the midst of her high-risk pregnancy, Margo Steines felt her life narrow around her growing body, compelling her to reckon with the violence entangled in its history. She was a professional dominatrix in New York City, a homestead farmer in a brutal relationship, a welder on a high-rise building crew and a Mixed Martial Arts enthusiast; each of her many lives brought a new vantage point from which to see how power and masculinity coalesce-and how her body paid the price. With unflinching candor, Steines searches for the roots of her erstwhile attraction to pain while charting the complicated triumph of tenderness and care"-- ER -